Monthly Archive for May, 2010

Patience One Day at a Time

Life happens not all at once but one day at a time.

Many have become impatient with life.  We hurry from one thing to another barely finishing what we were doing before running on to the next thing.  When something doesn’t happen as planned it becomes an inconvenience and often overwhelming.  Patience and understanding are lost, mostly with our family and ourselves.  Yet they are the ones who most define our lives.

Take a moment out of your busy day to show patience with someone in your family today. 

Enjoy Life Today!    

What kind of leader do you want to be?

The basis of leadership is the capacity of the leader to change the mindset, the framework of the other person.

  ~ Warren Bennis

Whether you are a president of a corporation or a parent of a family you are trying to get the people in your charge to do something . . . to achieve a goal.

Some leaders are revered and some hated. Both are remembered. However, a great leader not only gets his or her people to the goal or end result, but does it in a way that transforms individuals to feel better about themselves and what they’ve done than they felt before.

What kind of leader do you want to be?

Enjoy Life Today!… Continue reading

Roots & Wings

There are two lasting bequests we can give our children: one is roots, the other is wings.
  ~ Hodding Carter

This is one of my favorite quotes. It makes perfect sense and no sense at all. Sort of like our relationship with out kids at different times of our life. 

What stands out for me is that we succeed as parents when we can allow them to feel secure to confidently make choices based on who they are and the values that are important. That security allows them the freedom to fearlessly explore the unknown knowing that they can always come home.… Continue reading

Motherhood – it will change your life

Motherhood – it will change your life

We are sitting at lunch when she casually mentioned that she and her husband are thinking of “starting a family.” “We’re taking a survey,” she says, half joking “Do you think I should have a baby?”

“It will change your life,” I say carefully, keeping my tone neutral.

“I know,” she says, “no more sleeping in on the weekend, no more spontaneous vacations…” But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my friend, trying to decide what to tell her.

I want her to know what she will never learn in child birth classes. I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing heal, but that becoming a mother will leave her… Continue reading

Day One

“Day One” is a beginning. “Day One” of school . . . a diet . . . a new relationship . . . a rediscovered relationship . . . an exercise program . . . a new job. “Day One” is filled with enthusiasm, promise and possibilities. It is energized with a can-do mentality that nothing can get in the way of success. Barriers to the goal are non-existent or at least manageable.

 Sometimes our “Day One” is sparked by a period of frustration and the need for change. It can offer us fresh start and a chance for a new beginning.

 After the enthusiasm of “Day One” subsides the reality of our goal and its challenges set in. We allow the obstructions into focus and those obstacles… Continue reading