Tag Archive for 'family'

Letting go of our kids

It’s hard letting go at any age. I remember it being particularly difficult at 5, 11, 16, 20. Looking back it was about every 4-6 years! Each time it felt like they were going FOREVER! I realized they are like boomerangs! They return when you throw them! They can’t return if they’re not thrown!

Every time I throw my boomerangs I get better at throwing and they come back stronger each and every time! I didn’t think it was possible, but I love my boys more each and every day!… Continue reading

A Letter To My Younger Self about saying “No” by Ellyn Spragins

I was recently at an event where Ellyn Spragins, author of Letters To My Younger Self, spoke to a group of Women Entrepreneurs at the BIG Summer Summit at Skylands Castle on July 22, 2010. Her wisdom and experience spoke from the heart to ALL of us.

I wanted to share her blog A Letter To My Younger Self about saying no. It clarifies what we all go through in taking action to honor the priorities that are important to us as busy, working women.

Patience One Day at a Time

Life happens not all at once but one day at a time.

Many have become impatient with life.  We hurry from one thing to another barely finishing what we were doing before running on to the next thing.  When something doesn’t happen as planned it becomes an inconvenience and often overwhelming.  Patience and understanding are lost, mostly with our family and ourselves.  Yet they are the ones who most define our lives.

Take a moment out of your busy day to show patience with someone in your family today. 

Enjoy Life Today!    

What kind of leader do you want to be?

The basis of leadership is the capacity of the leader to change the mindset, the framework of the other person.

  ~ Warren Bennis

Whether you are a president of a corporation or a parent of a family you are trying to get the people in your charge to do something . . . to achieve a goal.

Some leaders are revered and some hated. Both are remembered. However, a great leader not only gets his or her people to the goal or end result, but does it in a way that transforms individuals to feel better about themselves and what they’ve done than they felt before.

What kind of leader do you want to be?

Enjoy Life Today!… Continue reading

Motherhood – it will change your life

Motherhood – it will change your life

We are sitting at lunch when she casually mentioned that she and her husband are thinking of “starting a family.” “We’re taking a survey,” she says, half joking “Do you think I should have a baby?”

“It will change your life,” I say carefully, keeping my tone neutral.

“I know,” she says, “no more sleeping in on the weekend, no more spontaneous vacations…” But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my friend, trying to decide what to tell her.

I want her to know what she will never learn in child birth classes. I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing heal, but that becoming a mother will leave her… Continue reading